Dependent personality is a kind of narcissistic personality. But, unlike its famous cousin, dependent personality appears weak and often comes to therapy rather than refusing to come. All of the personality disorders have their unique difficulties. DPD is difficult because it dominates with weakness; it controls the therapist by being…
Pop culture can be an excellent example and opportunity for learning about personality disorder. If you’ve seen it, you will never forget Jim Carey as Joel and Kate Winslet as Clementine in the 2004 cult classic, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. If you don’t want to read spoilers, this blog…
Most people lead lives of quiet desperation.
Henry David Thoreau
Most people lead lives of quiet desperation. – Henry David Thoreau – As strange as this might sound, I’ve always loved this quote. Since I was a teenager this quote has explained a feeling I have about many of the people I meet every day. Most are friendly and appropriate…
What is Personality Disorder? We are often asked this question by both patients and clinicians. Our definition most certainly goes beyond what you’d find in the DSM, because at Nysa Therapy, our focus is on WHY personality disorder makes sense, and why mental health practitioners should EXPECT patients to act…
Here at Nysa we talk a lot about either attachment-based personality disorders or separation-based personality disorders. Many people have not heard of personality disorders being divided up into these two categories so I thought I’d take a minute to explain how I understand this division. I’ll start by pointing out…
On October 12th the NYSA therapy team revealed several new techniques for treating borderline personality disorder. My initial reaction: WOW! Until now, my education surrounding personality disorders has been minimal and largely consisted of ways in which personality disorders are difficult to treat.
Nysa Therapy is almost 20 years old now. It’s hard to believe I’ve been doing this for so long. But, the truth is, treating personality disorder is very hard and it takes a long time to get things right; a real long time. So, let me take you back to…